• Flatirons Community Church in Lafayette, Colorado has an incredible ministry to youth.  They also offer a parent resource meeting to help families with dilemmas they are trying to figure out.  Not surprisingly,

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    Pretty much anything I write after this heading would be likely to generate support from one group of people and incite contempt from the rest of the people. This reality makes it intimidating to write or speak publicly

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    All right… well, clearly, blogging is not my primary vocation. My apologies for such a long absence. In my counseling practice, one of the things that broke my heart was the way shame seemed to get in the way

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    Sometimes shame masquerades as something on the surface, when really its insidious root goes much deeper. For instance, I have joked that I have the genetic makeup of a yak…I have far too much hair. At my Italian

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    The Heart of Female Same-Sex Attraction:  A Comprehensive Counseling Resource by Janelle Hallman is written for counselors of adult women who (a) experience and are in conflict with same-sex attractions, (b) claim a

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